I went to a strip club
A while back I was asked by a group of pastor’s wives to go with them to strip clubs.
That sentence alone sounds strange. But hang with me.
At first I was a little hesitant. And not for reasons you might think.
I love people. Especially ones who are broken; it’s part of my purpose. But, given what I’ve walked through, I know how fragile hurting people can be.
And I know how insensitive the church can be.
And I was uneasy.
But, these weren’t just any pastors wives.
They had a vision.
One that longed to love on women that society had thrown aside.
It reminded me a lot of Jesus.
So, I jumped on it.
Their plan was to visit these clubs once a month to deliver a meal, gift baskets and assistance. I joined them the first night and I’ll be honest, I had NO IDEA what to expect.
Now, I had my fair share of time (back in the day) in bars and such, but I’d never been to a strip club. I was totally unaware of what I was walking into.
We arrived and the bouncer ushered us back into the dressing room where we introduced ourselves and began distributing the gifts and food.
I was shocked by what I saw.
And I’ll tell you why:
I was raised to believe that no good comes from places like that. Which is probably true on many levels. (I wouldn’t suggest making it your go-to for date nights)
But, I was filled (as were many church kids) with fear about “places like that”. That “those people” were heathens and doing all kinds of sinful, shameful things.
Which, again, is true of strip clubs.
And bars.
And many other places.
Even churches.
But, these girls – these lovely, girls – were so…..normal.
As I talked with one in particular, she reminded me of any young mom I’d talk to in the school pick up line.
Minus the fact that she didn’t have much clothing on – I tried not to focus on that.
(Oh dear God, she’s talking about strippers in a Christian blog and talking about them being half naked. We should not EVEN be thinking such things! First, my sweet friend, it’s okay to laugh. Like seriously, it’s OKAY. The fact that 4 pastors wives and their pregnant friend even went into a strip club is kinda funny. If you’re going to love like Jesus, you’re going to find yourself in some pretty awkward situations. And if you don’t have a sense of humor, you’re toast. Like seriously. So, I give you full permission to go ahead and laugh at the mental picture) 🙂
They showed pictures of their children, talked of pregnancy (I was pregnant at the time) chatted about trying to get back in shape after having a baby, etc. It was SO NORMAL.
But, as we talked and I looked into their eyes, I saw women – young, broken women. Who had stories, probably much like mine or yours.
We didn’t stay long. They had a shift to work, and we didn’t want to overstay our welcome.
But, as we left, they thanked us.
More than once.
As I drove home, I totally fell apart in my car.
Not because I felt sorry for them. Not because I thought I was so much better than they were. Not because I pitied their circumstance.
I cried because my heart was broken.
One thing God continues to do in my heart, is humble it. Like over and over. Countless times, I think I’m going in to love on some lowly soul and then I walk out, completely undone because the condition of my own heart was exposed.
I wept in my car – realizing the way I had viewed women in that profession.
Because, people – that could have been me.
It could have been any of us.
Had my journey taken a few different turns, I very well could have been on the receiving end of that encounter.
Man. I WAS WRECKED.
I had my baby shortly after that visit and didn’t get to go back for the monthly visits to see the women.
But, I stayed in contact with one of the women organizing it and every so often, I ask her how it’s going.
They have been visiting them for a year now and received permission to leave a prayer box where the women could leave prayer requests.
The first few times they collected the box it had silly things written in it.
But they continued to leave it there.
Over the following weeks and months (as they continued to love on these women), the prayer requests got real.
Real situations
Real hurt
Real needs
Last time my friend and I got together, I asked about the strip clubs and this is what she said:
Her eyes always, always fill with tears when we talk about it because God is SO in love with these precious women.
She said, “The women are starting to reach out more. I’ve been texting with one and getting to connect with her a bit deeper”
We talked a bit more and she turned to me and said something that I am still rattled by.
“You know what one of them said to me last time?”
“What?”
“She said that she was so glad we come to visit them because we’re not like the other churches”
I said, “what did she mean by that?”
She said, “Apparently other churches send them hate mail. ALL THE TIME”
I’m sure my face turned three shades of white.
Complete shock and disbelief gripped me.
We both looked at eachother and about fell into a pool of tears right there.
People – church – WHAT ARE WE DOING?!
Did we forget (or do we just sing it songs) that Jesus was a friend of sinners, the outcast, the lonely?
Did we forget that it’s God’s kindness that leads us to love others?
That ALL OF OUR GOOD BIBLE LOVING STUFF are like filthy rags without love?
Jesus was UNAFRAID of walking in love to the least of the least.
Like the scum of the scum.
He walked right in, sat down and ate with the outcasts of society.
Gross, ugly messy people.
And the religious HATED HIM FOR IT.
A few years ago, I met with another pastor’s wife across the country who shared with me a similar ministry, although after months of developing relationships with the dancers, they asked the owners a crazy question.
They asked to hold a Bible study.
IN THE STRIP CLUB.
Just for the dancers.
Surprisingly, they were given a yes.
(Something about it building morale in the employees, but whatever. It was a surprising yes and they were thrilled)
So, they started leading a Bible study in the club.
But, something was missing.
And those serving knew it.
The women they were ministering to needed to be led by a man – not because these women were incapable, but because of the damaged, skewed image they had of men. They needed to see a man who was safe – they needed a man who loved like Jesus.
This woman’s husband (who was a pastor) stepped up and took on the challenge. And, for months the dancers wouldn’t even look him in the eye.
But he kept showing up….
Soon, one by one, the women met a divine love through this pastor’s humble, gentle leadership.
There was prayer.
Women found freedom.
And many went on to lead, healthy restored lives.
All because this group of women and this pastor were unafraid to go where God’s love was leading them.
I’m not suggesting that we all have this purpose.
I am not God.
What I AM saying to you is that if Jesus were here, walking among us, wouldn’t it be just like him to walk into the most un-religious place (strip club or whatever) and completely freak the religious folk out?
Just a thought.
He loved then.
He loves now.
But, he can only reach as far as you and I are willing to go.
Hugs,
Anna
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435 Comments
Sarah
This is a beautiful way of letting Christ shine through you! Love it! I would love to get involved but there aren’t any strip clubs around here! But there are other groups that many Christians dismiss around here! Please pray that i can find a special way to reach out to those groups! Thank you for writing!
joan_barrett
This is one of a series of worthwhile ministries that have sprung up in our city. I just hope that as we minister to unlikely others that we are not doing it just to “freak the religious people out” or just to jump on a new wave. Just because one would be called to an unorthodox place to minister, we do not want to try to compare, condemn, or measure such against those “religious people” who, like the older brother in the Prodigal Son story, have consistently filled their places of service year in and year out inside the body of Christ, teaching little children about Jesus.
JMoss
What approach do you recommended for starting this up? Any practical suggestions to get this going? Thx!
mixer20
There are probably a million truck stops though… And had the girls in strip clubs have been trafficked at truck stops at the hands of an older “boyfriend” who promised them a better life or money when they met but now she’s forced to work or face beatings gang rape etc. these are our girls… Trafficked to business men athletes etc every single day. … So athletic venues hotels airports and truck stops are great places to go watch and pray and intercede if you see something that looks fishy. Also….. Ask your middle schools if their teachers have been given human trafficking awareness training…. Many kids are trafficked all night and sent to school all day. Most common ages are 11-14 when they are introduced to this nightmare. You can make a difference!!!!
Madeline
I agree – this is the true message of Christ. To see people for who they are instead of their roles in society. <3
A forgiven sinner.
First, I just want you to know that I in no way mean this to come off rude or smart mouthed. Just felt led to post this as a reminder. There are other places where the “Broken” tend to congregate. There are women and children shelters, methadone clinics, jails and prisons,, food pantries…… I am in no way insinuating that just bc one is poor or needs extra groceries to make it through the month, that they are therefore inherently broken or more so in need of Jesus. However, many of us know that There are often similar challenges in one’s background. In other words, the same life events that caused those young ladies to turn to a strip club to support themselves may cause others to end up In any one of the above mentioned places.
This may be meant for you, … Or maybe for some stranger reading these very words. Regardless please know that these words were written for someone. I KNOW that HE will see to it that the right eyes read these words
Be Blessed
Nichola
Are there abortion clinics near you? Would you consider reaching out to the clinic workers and sharing Christ’s love?
fred Osborne
I have been saved for over 40 year’s I started ministering and witnessing in the streets of Hollywood California in the early 70s I saw miraculous deliverance and salvation. Many drug dealers drug addicts prostitutes and so many more including strippers come to the Lord Jesus Christ and never look back . Never did I or anyone so into or have a need to go into a strip joint. The Lord ,when one is in the Lord, will always draw by his Holy Spirit the list to his cross. These people are soo misdirected and imulating them will have dire consequences. I have known of some people believing God sent them into bars and now they are alcoholics. Jesus never went into these kind of environment the Holy Ghost drew them to him.
fred Osborne
I have been saved for over 40 year’s I started ministering and witnessing in the streets of Hollywood California in the early 70s I saw miraculous deliverance and salvation. Many drug dealers drug addicts prostitutes and so many more including strippers come to the Lord Jesus Christ and never look back . Never did I or anyone so into or have a need to go into a strip joint. The Lord ,when one is in the Lord, will always draw by his Holy Spirit the lost to his cross. These people are soo misdirected and imulating them will have dire consequences. I have known of some people believing God sent them into bars and now they are alcoholics. Jesus never went into these kind of environment the Holy Ghost drew them to him. The reason the responses are so as they are is because they have not ever seen real revival or soul winning. I have. A revival is not a few days of prayer but rather years of consecrated devotion daily following the Lord , reading bible and fasting and crying for human souls the Holy Ghost will fall. Give no place to the flesh, flee the very appearance of evil. These are things the word of God commands us to obey.
fred Osborne
I have been saved for over 40 year’s I started ministering and witnessing in the streets of Hollywood California in the early 70s I saw miraculous deliverance and salvation. Many drug dealers drug addicts prostitutes and so many more including strippers come to the Lord Jesus Christ and never look back . Never did I or anyone go into or have a need to go into a strip joint. The Lord ,when one is in the Lord, will always draw by his Holy Spirit the lost to his cross. These people are soo misdirected and imulating them will have dire consequences. I have known of some people believing God sent them into bars and now they are alcoholics. Jesus never went into these kind of environment the Holy Ghost drew them to him. The reason the responses are so as they are is because they have not ever seen real revival or soul winning. I have. A revival is not a few days of prayer but rather years of consecrated devotion daily following the Lord , reading bible and fasting and crying for human souls the Holy Ghost will fall. Give no place to the flesh, flee the very appearance of evil. These are things the word of God commands us to obey.
Terri
I love hearing about the work you’ve been doing for decades now. We must differ, however, on not going where the people are in order to reach them. I believe your approach to your ministry has worked terrifically well for you, from what you’ve described, and shouldn’t be criticized. But I wouldn’t take that approach as an example of how all ministry should be done — because of the example of Jesus.
The idea that the Holy Spirit pulls people out of bars and strip clubs so we can witness to them outside is too convenient for me. Our example is Jesus, who came to the worst place in the universe — Earth. He came because *that’s where the sinners are.* He didn’t say “I have to avoid the appearance of evil, so I can’t go to Earth — that place is full of sinners.” And indeed, he was judged by people for going around with prostitutes and sinners. He was never inappropriate with anyone, but He didn’t even try to avoid the appearance of evil that came with His efforts to save people. *That is our example.
Since “avoid the appearance of evil” is in the Bible, it certainly has a place in our lives. Given the context of it, it clearly addresses things like a male minister not going alone to a female parishioner’s house to counsel her alone. These are serious issues that can indeed lead into sin. But avoiding the appearance of evil should never be used to block us from following the example of Jesus in reaching out to people *wherever they may be in want or in need.
Candie Diacon
I have been doing this in the Tulsa area for a couple of months with a wonderful group of woman. I love the prayer box idea and will be suggesting it tonight. Thank you for the encouragement I got from reading this. May God bless you and the woman doing this type of ministry. If you have any other thoughts or suggestions about this type of ministry I would love to hear about them
Angie
Candie how did u get started doing this. I would love to do this in my city. We have a club that just opened up down the street from me.
Angie
I was “one of those women” a few years back. I was raised strict Pentecostal. Unfortunately I was in an abusive marriage and when he started to abuse the kids I decided it was my time to leave. I was doing well financially for the first couple of months until he called and “borrowed” money that he never paid back and I found myself in a financially sad situation. I was a single mom with three girls to take care of with absolutely no help from him. I applied at every night job I could find and couldn’t get a second job. Out of desperation I took on a job as a waitress and bartender at a strip club so I could pay my bills. It wasn’t my most accomplished moment and I was so uptight I stuck out like a sore thumb, but I was able to pay the bills. We had ladies just like you who would bring in gift baskets on holidays with little notes reminding us that we were loved. Never preaching but always there to talk with us. I will never forget those precious ladies and the hope they brought to what I saw as a hopeless and desperate situation. Things have since gotten better and I no longer work at the clubs, but it definitely made a huge impact in my life. Even though I may not have personally met you, I want to say thank you for bringing these ladies hope in a time when they need it the most. May God bless you all.
Yellow
Awesome testimony, thanks for sharing.
Dianna Canales
This is absolutely beautiful! Thank you for knowing that God truly loved more than just the ones that are following him. My heart sobbed reading this. 🙁 I would like to give you a reason why. I am a broken sinner saved by grace daily, I mess up and loose my way more often than I loose my keys (which is literally everyday). When we lived down South I knew my Heavenly Father and walked so close with him and was afirmed in my faith, walk and relationship. It was my home church and my church family that helped me understand the true meaning of who God was, I didn’t have to change me, HE changed me, they just loved me and my family as the broken people we were and changed our world’s. We since moved to the North due to my husband’s job and it seems like we have lost that love, relationship, walk and knowing. I admitted I was a recovering alcoholic and that made everyone at the church flip, they stare looking at me and my family different. I explained to them I was invited to a birthday party that was at a bar (I never touched a drink) but I felt like taking a few of the ladies home and talking to them about God would help THEM, well my church has done more and more to let us know that we aren’t part of the particular in crowd. So with all of the words in the world, Anna, please hear my heart say thank you for seeing the women as such and loving them for just as they are. Dianna Canales
Michael A. Coughlin
One thing Jesus would most certainly do is proclaim to them that He is the Savior and that only through repentance from their sin and trusting in His death, burial and resurrection alone will they have eternal life and forgiveness of sin.
This is exactly what He did when He walked the earth, and He commands us to do the same. And it is desperately missing from the above article. I appreciate someone reaching out to folks who are in a situation that is not usually associated with “religion,” but without the gospel, which according to Romans 1:16 is “the power” of God unto salvation, these women are not better off than before.
So I applaud the effort while agreeing that we should be reaching out to everyone, but without the gospel you are offering these people no hope, just continual condemnation from a Holy God. It is tantamount to handing someone a sandwich and a gift basket while they are on their way to running off a cliff they cannot see – instead of warning them that the fall will kill them.
Vanda
the mercy/goodness of God leads men to repentence its in the book. I’m sure they do lead these ladies to trust in the Lord as their saviour once they demonstrate the love of God towards them and their hearts learn to trust again.
Jodi
Sorry I just need to ask you to reference the Jesus would proclaim to them he’s their saviour stuff….where in the gospels is all that?
Sandra taylor
Luke 11:11-13😢
John
Luke 11:11-13New International Version (NIV)
11 “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for[a] a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
So no Sandra Taylor, Luke 11:11-13 is not an example of Jesus proclaiming himself our savior.
Mark
What a shortsighted ass hat you are.
I am not religious at all, but you sir, are not a nice person at all.
Good on the people in this tale. I don’t agree with the motives (converting people to a cult) but they seem like good hearted people at least.
Intolerant people like you, however, can go to hell.
Michael A. Coughlin
LOL. How tolerant of you…
🙂
mike
I agree Mark! Cast the first stone Michael. Jeez.
Pilgrim Pastor
I don’t get the impression this was devoid of the Gospel so much as laying groundwork of trust so that the door would become open for the Gospel.
Fred Blauer
Ya think????? Mercy, the church has lost it’s way if when bold acts of love are difficult to understand.
Chuck Rogness
They didn’t need to preach Christ because they were manifesting HIM!! Everyday we are to be a witness of Jesus Christ and some days we may need to use words!!
Fred Blauer
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
James RUNAVICH
The Gospel is news. It’s the good news of Jesus Christ. You cannot live that you must proclaim that. You cannot live the news. If you think that people can figure out who Jesus is by simply watching you-you
think far too much of yourself.
Pastor Greg
The quote attributed to St. Francis (many doubt it was ever said by him) has one major problem. The New Testament pattern for evangelism. Paul said “how can they believe in Him if they have not heard.” The apostles preached for hours, using words. Paul reasoned with those in the synagogue, for many days, using words. The Commission calls us to make disciples, this means we must use words. We are to Speak the truth in love.
Dana
Michael A. Coughlin, I agree with you 100% on both accounts. The desperate need for these women to be reached out to, and that the Gospel must be heard. Without the Hope of Christ, the hope they receive is in vane. Thank you for posting, speaking the truth in love.
Sister in Christ, Dana
Fred Blauer
No act of kindness or love is ever in vain. How shortsighted the Church has become.
created4him
Brother, I appreciate your point but you are missing the point. Showing the love of Jesus is all the preaching they need. When people experience Jesus loving them through his body, they will run to him. They don’t need a sermon or doctrine, they just need Jesus. They don’t have to understand the trinity, penal substitution or anything else. They just need to be introduced to Jesus. And, you are incorrect, Jesus would have simply said “follow me”.
Fred Blauer
I’m so sorry to read your comment; we are called to love one another, we are called to follow Christ in His ministry of healing; we are called to honor all people; we are called to lift up the downcast. I’m so sorry you can’t rejoice in these acts of love and mercy, trusting God to strike a hunger within their souls; trust that no deed of love will be in vain. Sorry you have narrowed your focus to the extent that the true power of the Holy Spirit is lost on you. I’m so proud of these women, so thrilled they followed the leading of God to reach out in whatever way they know, say whatever words they feel are right for the moment; and so sad that you missed it all. If there was ever a spirit of the Pharisees, you have displayed it, and it makes me ashamed of you.
Erica
I like that they build a relationship with the women first which opens the door to deeper sharing. I’d say they did it just right!
Carly
It’s possible to give the gospel in a gentle why upon the first time you meet these ladies that is what I did because you never know if someone is going to die that night and if they believe on Christ before they die then I gave the gospel to them just in time. Why are we so afraid of what others think about us giving them the gospel? You know if someone had given me the gospel when I was working in strip clubs I would have been glad about it because I wanted the truth.
Daniek Lerr
I feel certain that most of these women are aware “that the fall will kill them”. There are some dancers who don’t care, and even enjoy their job, but they don’t seem to be the focal point of this ministry.
Carissa
The door was opened for them when they loved, then they did a Bible study. I’m guessing that included the gospel.
Shannon
Dude didn’t you read the part of the Male pastor or the Bible studies there having?? Sounds like they are receiving the gospal as well
Alison
Why did you not get the indication that they didn’t share the gospel? They told of God’s love , love for sinners, held a Bible study that has the Living word of God telling that He is the way, He is the truth , He is the life. I’m sure they knew of sins consequences from all the hate mail. As relationships were building I’m sure questions were asked . You can change no one only God but you speak the truth in love and sometimes that requires no words . Over and over God loves you . Again and again love isn’t a save and swoop . It’s a search and sanctify. Love does hard things . It’s not afraid and trusts .
I’m sure the questions started with church and they ended with Jesus.
Destiny Dixon
While there are some valid points here, you appear to have completely overlooked the fact that this outreach led to Bible studies, which in turn led to salvation and a restored life for many of the women there. The Gospel message was not missing from the ministry; rather the gift baskets and prayer box were a doorway leading up to it.
Abby
Of course, only Christ Jesus saves, why not be friends with sinners and believers alike? We all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. I don’t know about you, but God pursued me while I was a sinner. And unfortunately I still sin. They did share the gospel, whether it was in a note with the food their first time visiting or not until the bible study, I don’t know. But these women chose to live out the gospel and take church to those who might not enter a church building. At the foot of the cross, our sins are equal.
David
They won’t care what you know till they know that you care. Building the relationship softwns the heart and builds willing acceptance of the gospel. But I also feel that not all the details were included of what isngoing on, just what the writer knew about.
Bob F
Michael Coughlin — I guess while lightly skimming the article looking for something to nitpick you missed;
“Soon, one by one, the women met Jesus through this pastor’s humble, gentle leadership.
There were prayer sessions.
Women were set free.
And many went on to lead, healthy restored lives.”
I feel sorry for ou.
Rebecca
They gave them the gospel when they started the Bible study. They would have never been welcomed in the club if they had asked to start with that first. The church has hurt people like that and it was wise of them to build relationships first so the women would trust them and then be open to hear the gospel.
Sam Jim Jacob
Michael..michael…people dont want to hear unless they see u care firsr..trust me..going in all guns blazing just is going to scare people away…lets show love..then explain…thats what we would want right?
Laurie
I think it’s implied that as the women/strippers developed trust for the pastors’wives and saw “love” in their words and actions only then would they become ripe for hearing the Word and ready to actually listen to what the women had to say. Much like missionaries must learn the language and ways of a tribe and earn trust before the true sharing of the Gospel is achieved; if they were to go into a strip club and begin preaching they would likely be ignored — especially as some of the girls quotes indicate hearing about the wrath of God for their sin rather than His love. I think they were doing it exactly right; emulating His love is what shows we truly belong to him and what makes people WANT to draw near — WANT what we have.
Jodi
I fear that you missed some of this blog….
Paula Spalding
There’s an old saying that hungry bellies can’t hear the gospel. these women are coming back into the club every week with a meal and a shoulder and THAT is hope to the hopeless. i am sure they are spreading the gospel in a way that these women in need of love without judgement can hear it. do you seriously believe they would have a prayer box and not understand that those prayers were being said to a loving God and a savior who gave everything for them? they are planting seeds in a barren place and then bringing fertile soil in one hot meal at a time.
Shelia Hensley
This is what is wrong with some religions today. I believe Jesus himself was right on Girls!!! My love is shining through you and that what is more important than anything. Don’t believe this person, ladies, you are doing God’s work. Keep it up. God bless you.
Bobby Bower
Cramming verses down someone’s throat does not win them. Even the bible tells us to start with ‘milk’ and gradually progress to the ‘meat’. Showing God’s love, through action, is what wins people, or a better way to say it…what makes them want to hear more. I suggest you reread the blog. These women first, won the hearts of the lost, by showing compassion and unconditional love, as Christ did, then second, shared with them Christ’s love by lending an ear and an avenue (prayer box) by which these lost could pour out their hurt which then gave these ladies a doorway to the heart of the lost. Once you have the trust of the lost, then you can begin to share with them the life giving ‘food’ that Christ has to offer.
ES
I’m assuming they probably covered the Gospel during the Bible studies. Sometimes you have to “feed the hungry” first, and SHOW them Jesus, before they will listen as you TELL them about Jesus. 🙂
Jeff
Did you not read the part about the Bible study being started and a pastor teaching? I have found that in the current climate, people have to see that you are walking the walk before they accept the talk.
Jamie Kosalsky
How do you know they’re not saying those things? The writer admits she’s only been to one meeting. I’m sure going in to that the first few visits is mostly about meeting the girls and showing them that they’re not about shoving religion down their throats-which I’m sorry, is exactly what that would like like to a non Christian. You have to meet people where they’re at. You can’t just go in pronouncing stuff like that. It takes Bible study and prayer and the holy spirit to “get” the word of God in Scripture. Going in with guns blazing hot would just turn those girls off to Jesus completely. Instead of hearing, “the only way to salvation is to repent of your sins and believe….” They’re going to hear “you’re a sinner, you suck, and you need to be like me or you’re going to hell”. I guarantee those ladies wouldn’t have been welcome back over and over like they have. Humble yourself. That could be you who isn’t saved. There’s a tactful way to share what it takes to be saved. Compassion my brother, compassion. Yes those facts to salvation remain, but it’s about making Christianity attractive first. I’m sure the woman that work there were thinking to themselves, at first, “wow, what nice women, who love God!? Gosh, they’re so sweet.” Then after more and more visits from the wives, they probably started thinking, “wow, I want that feeling too. How do I get that?” Hence you read those women are reaching out on their own. They have to find Jesus on their own. Now when they’re ready to, they know who to reach out to to make that happen. Seeds are planted. Watered. Conversations happen. Personal testimonies shared. Then bam, salvation.
Teresa
You are missing the fact that in the article, at least one woman DID make a decision for Christ, as was noted above. When the religious people brought the woman caught in sin to Jesus, he told them to cast the first stone if they were without sin. When they realized that no one was without sin, they left just the woman and Jesus. He turned to her and said “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them cause you?” And she replied, “No, Lord.” Then He said, “NEITHER DO I,”(Pretty important and is said before He then says, “Go and sin no more.”
There is a reason that He says He does not condemn her, he was showing her that she was loved and had value. Then He said “Go and sin no more.”
Amazingly enough, Jesus didn’t stand there and tell the woman that she needed to believe in Him or else. It is no where in the story.
But He showed her she was worth something, and she called Him Lord for it.
Let’s not forget that He changes the hearts of men, we can lead them there, which these people are doing, but we can’t make them decide.
Chancellor
Mr. Coughlin’s response is just not scripturally accurate. These women reflect the spirit of The Good Samaritan, answering well the question “Who is my neighbor?”.
“For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink. I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me. I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me…whenever you did for one of the least of these, you did for me.”
Jenn
Regardless of whether or not these women succeeded in the effort you describe, they still brought something of unimaginable value to other women. The women described are indeed better off, for they have been given a meaningful experience, and who knows where it might lead them, or where they might have wandered had they never had it.
Nikki
Wow… Just…. No. When religion causes you to write off a simple, real, act of kindness because it’s “still not good enough”
This is why I’m not religious
I’m a human being
T. Sander
Hi Michael, I appreciate your concern about understanding the gospel. That certainly is the very heart of scripture. But I do think you are quick to jump to conclusions. She said they started a Bible study, which in my mind can only mean explicit explanation and discussion of the scriptures and how those words impact our lives. I cannot imagine that they didn’t discuss basic Christian beliefs.
In addition, I think it is important to note that Jesus used a variety of ways to draw in the people he was evangelizing to. Inevitably he spoke right to their hearts, often right to their fears or needs, but was not necessarily sharing the gospel word for word. In much of the gospels it was not time to reveal himself yet, but that did not stop him from healing people, feeding people or meeting other needs. He understood that each interaction brought them closer to believing in him as Lord and Savior and that many of those people would seek out the full truth about him. And God will not deny someone knowledge who is actively seeking out truth and calling on His name.
When we treat others like gold (with a genuine heart), they become more interested in the kind of God that loves like that. In each situation it is important to seek the Holy Spirit and listen to know when the right time is to share the gospel. Different evangelistic styles are suited for different places, but in this generation it is becoming increasingly prevalent that people will only listen to the beliefs/opinions of a trusted friend.
Evelyn
Dear Michael, perhaps you skipped over these statements?
“they started leading a Bible study in the club”,
” Soon, one by one, the women met Jesus through this pastor’s humble, gentle leadership.”
THEY MET JESUS. The God of the universe and the Savior of mankind. Through love and building relationships and studying the Bible ~ THEY MET JESUS. And there was fruit. Lives were healed. And changed. That was JESUS.
Kelsey
I would just like to point out that many of those who are not already religious or trust in the Lord would tuck tail and run if a group of religious women started thrusting the gospel in their face from the first second they are encountered. We are taught to trust in the Lord, and I believe to begin building a solid foundation between God, and those in need of him, we must first make a trusting connection with them. (Please no one get offended by my analogies) but a stray dog will not come galloping into the arms of a stranger without trust… An abused child will not be comforted by a hand they’re not sure will lash out at them… I think what these ladies did, and are doing is absolutely beautiful. So I ask with the upmost respect.. Please do not immediately judge the situation and assume that they are not teaching them the gospel. Things take time.. Including the Fathers work.
vamptilq
@Michael A Coughlin, seeing as how you’ve taken it upon yourself to criticize, not only the author’s ministry but the manner in which she writes about it, demonstrates, without a doubt!, that you have a truly remarkable understanding of how to touch the hearts of women. It’s fascinating how you lecture on all of her shortcomings, both in her ministry and as a writer, then go on to tell her all the ways she *should* have done things. Clearly, the complex, delicate nature of this undertaking would have been mere child’s play for a man such as yourself. How could it be, after all, that women would know how to approach other women?! Why, that’s crazy talk! So, while I’m glad the author took the time to write a detailed account of the ministry in its entirety — wait..no, that’s not right…She wrote an article…Just… an article — Where was I…? Oh, yes… While I’m glad she took the time to write THIS BRIEF ARTICLE, I’m even *more* thankful to see YOU here, bearing witness to the gestures that meant the most to you…those acts of love that pierced your heart the deepest…during your time as a broken, young woman.
datubeda123
Thank you for providing Exhibit A of why the Church is dying and on life support in this country.
Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you… now go and sin no more.” He did not require the woman’s confession and repentance as a prior condition. The power of the gospel is not made of no effect because these women did not do what you would have done. “You shall know them by their fruits.” Christ led His people by example… far more powerful than hollow words.
Laura W.
While the main point you’re attempting to make (loving the unlovely as Christ did — Zaccheus, lepers, the widow, etc.) is true & good consider the WAY in which you make the point. Being critical of The Church is not Christ-honoring. What is The Church? The bride of Christ. Would you be openly critical of someone’s wife? I don’t think you would. While there is certainly a need for The Church to be introspective, honest & to hold itself accountable, these actions need to take place IN The Church. We are a body. We are to care for each other and that includes when we say hard things to each other. We don’t need to openly, publicly rebuke each other.
Also, the line, “But, he can only reach as far as you and I are willing to go.” is wholly untrue. The Holy Spirit is not limited by mortal man’s action or inaction. Yes, we are commanded to go. But God accomplishes His will with or without us. Was His will accomplished despite Jonah’s unwillingness to go to Nineveh? Absolutely.
Again, I understand your point. And I think this ministry is great & necessary but please consider the way you make this point.
Jonathan
Would you consider the Apostle, Paul critical of the church? Take a close look at his letters.
beccalouise
If a church is the people and those people are sending hate mail to people, they deserve to be rebuked. We will just have to trust that the author of this blog was led to write by the spirit. If you remember scripture, Christ did rebuke people at times.
ellieart7
But the point is the church isn’t introspective. In many cases they are dangerous, toxic places that respect only the prosperous & slick who talk a good game but demonstrate nothing remotely like self sacrifice or compassion. They trust in their 401k and their designer shoes. And do irreparable harm to the truly hurting among them.
beemara
I think sometimes it’s healthy to make sure we are in love with and worshiping God and not ‘The Church’. I will most definitely criticise ‘The Church’ if they send hate mail. That is not the Church that God called us to be.
Angela
Sounds like you are criticizing them. And by your words, that’s not Christ-honoring.
Melissa
I am in tears, my heart is broken for those who need Christ and are hated by those who profess to know Him!
I try to be grace giving of the people who are judge mental, sometimes I fall into that category.
I’ve known and loved deeply, many people who have seen the ugly side of church. My family even.
Thank you so much for this, it’s helped me realize where God is leading me eventually.
Sheila L Mynatt
I say all the time it is easy to be salt in the salt shaker and light in a bright room. God called us to be salt and light, I really don’t think he meant for us to Just hang out in the church.
Callie
Very nice but why not leave prayer baskets for the men and target the men who go…. it’s always got to be the women, always the women. Why not approach the men in the strip club and introduce them to Jesus? I can guarantee you would receive a different response. If you really want to make an impact why go for the easy guilt ridden option by targeting the women earning money?
Vanda
Callie are you going at all? Maybe the Lord is calling you to the men? Maybe they are called to the women
Grady
There are mens ministries that work on talking with the guys just like the women are going to talk with the women there. They all need to be reached but you’re not going to be able to minister to either of them during the club hours. We have to minister to them in other times. I think you’re looking at it as they are blaming the women. This is a fallen world and we are all sinners. Let the ladies minister to the women as it’s non threatening and let men minister to the men.
Pilgrim Pastor
Perhaps some other ministries are but that’s not what this article is about.
nightslyte
Fortunately, there’s no point system that makes tough souls of more value. The women go to those it is right to go to, not requiring them to go out there and try to introduce Jesus to lusting, drunken men. Without the relationship between them there’d be no sense in a “prayer request box”. The ladies shouldn’t be out there to try for that relationship.
Sending men in to try for the patrons would be pure folly.A man may be strong and able to “handle it”, but good heavens, there are better times and places to reach out to them.
Roberta Jones
To help them know that they are worthy human beings. To help to change the outcome of their future. To raise their child to know that this is not the path to take. To know they are worthy of a good, decent, honest relationship and not repeat their past.
The men should be targeted, too. By men. Men need to understand that it is okay to oppose societies views that women are only sexual objects. Sexual experience is not what a woman needs, and not what is needed in a woman. Look at Tim Tebow, society ignores him when he chooses the Godly path and refuses to have sex. https://www.tellmenow.com/2015/11/tim-tebows-girlfriend-dumps-him-because-he-refuses-to-have-sex/
Alison
Easy guilt ridden option? For starters I believe they ministered to women because they themselves are women. They can relate. Ministering to the men also would be great. Would be wonderful if a group of men who understand lust and it’s struggle were ministering to men here. That would be amazing. Perhaps that is something you could look in to . The idea is already placed in your mind
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Jaclyn
Hello! This post “happened” to show up in my fb feed because a couple of friends liked it. I decided to rrad read it because just yesterday I finished a jury service involving the rape of a child, whose mother works at a strip club. I’m a believer and God has already given me a view of strip club workers being people just like me who need a Savior. The story you shared brought me to tears. Especially the part about having a man lead the Bible study and that the women wouldn’t even look at him at first. It speaks volumes! Thank you for this post because, through it, you gave me more passion and more specific things to pray for regarding the young girl’s Mother in the case.
Jeffery
Anna,
I was raised as a Roman Catholic and I never felt like a part of the church. Something was missing. Some connection just wasn’t there. It wasn’t until years later that I could comprehend what that missing feeling was, and even once I was finally able to grasp the complexity and depth of it, it took much longer to figure out how to deal with it. What was missing was Love. I could feel the displeasure, the disgust, when I wasn’t perfectly groomed, or if I didn’t look my best, even if my hair was out of place. The church had, for me, become a narrow minded self involved institution dedicated to imposing a morality that had nothing to do with the life of Jesus and everything to do with how the church demanded you live by their code. This is also why I was so confused growing up. Father Murray was such a nice man to me, very kind one on one, a genuinely happy person. But his sermons were so filled with hellfire and damnation that I could not find the connection I so desired with God and Jesus. The closest I found to the kind of faith I was yearning for was a youth group called Young Life, but even there I found discrimination and segregation.
After many years and too many churches to count, I gave up on a formalized religion and went my own way. I have always had faith, but my belief in God and Jesus was battered and torn. I decided to avoid churches, and even religious conversations, because none of them ever felt right to me. I thought at one point in my life to become a pastor, but I’m not a leader. I will talk freely about my beliefs but only if the person I am talking to seems truly open to a different way of being faithful.
I decided to bring my faith to other people in a bizarre way, through humor. I never talk about God or Jesus but I get people to laugh. Laughter is a powerful force but no one seems to understand how powerful it can be. I joke around all the time, and use whatever I can to just get that laugh. Once the first chuckle has been achieved the joyful feeling can take over a person, no matter how bad the day has been. Typically, once you get a person to laugh and feel that joy, they will be nicer to those around them, and that is all I want to see, humans being nicer to other humans. Jesus supped with sinners of the foulest kind, because he saw in them what they didn’t see in themselves, a worthy person who given the chance at joy can make a change. I just use a different vehicle to attain a similar result. To me, the more you can laugh, the closer you can be to God and Jesus. God doesn’t want you to bow to a church or its leaders, He wants you to put forth your hand to help your brother or sister up from the street, because only then will you be able to comprehend his Love has nothing to do with control and everything to do with the Love he gave to you to give to everyone around you.
Judi
I’m sorry you couldn’t find what you needed in any of the churches you went to. I guess I’ve been blessed or lucky, because I’ve never attended a church in which I felt unwelcome. At my first visit, if I didn’t receive welcome s from the congregants around me, I knew it wasn’t where I was meant to be. I’ve been to churches as large as Braeswood Assembly of God in Houston to my present Presbyterian Church with a weekly attendance of 40. I pray you find where you’re supposed to be.
twnzmom
Wow. Excellent post. A must read.
Kathy
Oh for heaven’s sake, what’s wrong with being a stripper? At least they’re employed. And what about male strippers? Does no one think to reach out to them? Or do we giggle and admit that they’re cute, sexy, whatever.
You’re missing the point. The strip club needs customers to stay in business. And who are those customers? MEN! Probably some who are considered godly Christian men. Start praying for the men who frequent such places. If they didn’t go there, the club would have to close.
Cathy
I agree with this. Sometimes women who work in strip clubs are actually intelligent women who possibly DO know Christ, it is just that they need to put food on the table, get through school, pay the rent, what have you, and this is unfortunately, the best way to do it.
I’ve never been a stripper, I’ve never set foot inside a strip club, but for some reason I resent the notion that all strippers are Godless idiots. I’ve seen this notion before. Some really are doing it by choice because it is a way to make money.
Amelia
The point is that strippers are largely marginalized as being less than. Some of these women are shamed (as was made evident by the hate mail from other churches) and made to feel wrong and unloved. Reaching out to them isn’t to make them feel they are wrong for being strippers. It is to let them know that they are still valued and loved–despite society wanting to cast them out as sinners.
I’m not religious as all but I admire what these women are trying to do. They are simply reaching out to a marginalized group to say “Society may view you negatively, but We see you. We value you. We love you. As does Jesus.” What is wrong with that? Those that don’t feel they need it can ignore it. But living in such a highly judgmental society–I bet quite a few of those strippers appreciate someone acknowledging them as worthwhile human beings.
James RUNAVICH
Who said all strippers were Godless idiots? To use your sensuality, and sex, as a device to entice men or to make money is against absolutely everything God holds as true, good, and lovely. It is sinful behavior period. There is no justification for someone who claims Christ to be a stripper. It would be ample proof that they are not saved.
beccalouise
Some people can find anything to criticize.
Kelly
Kathy. SHAME ON YOU!! You call yourself a Christian? WOW!! I ONLY see a judgemental, hatred, and someone who has an EXTREME amount of suppressed anger, and rage against Men.
“In the beginning the Word. The word was God and the Word was with God. He who did not God did not know love. For God is love.”
Steve Dornan
The point is to show these women they have value in Christ. If you don’t see a problem with strippers male or female you need to read your Bible. God is not pleased when we tempt others to sin which stripping definitely does this and customers of these places are devaluing the strippers who are made in the image of God.
pianist337
Kathy, excellent point. There are strip clubs because there are customers interested in going there. It is the same issue with drugs. There are cartels running drugs…because some people want to buy and use them. Both will be with us as long as people are willing to pay for the service.
John Johnson
In John 14:9,
Jesus says to Philip: “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.” We, as ambassadors for Christ are used by God who draws others through us to His Son. When we see our need for Him, and trust Him, the Holy Spirit seals us in Christ and begins the process of leading us into all truths via the Holy Spirit as mentioned in John 14:23-27.
God is love! Before the foundation of the world, the trinity planned the redemption of those who God the Father drew to Himself (Romans 5:8), Christ paid for our sins through His blood and death on the cross (1 Corinthians 15:1-4), when we put our trust in Christ alone for salvation, the Holy Spirit sealed us in Christ forever. (Ephesians 1:3-14). To be used for God’s purpose in and through Christ, what a privilege!
Angela Brown
Beautifully written! We must be like Jesus. Period.
Kimberly Hatch
100% agree with you and I love that you wrote this! I especially like this line: “But, he can only reach as far as you and I are willing to go.” I hope that one sticks with me for life. God bless you and keep you on your journey of Love.
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What an amazing story…….what would Jesus do?
Pam
what kind of gifts did they bring?
Abigail
I’m on the verge of possibly getting a job like this. Because the “church” has abandoned me in ways. They will “pray” for me, but because they all seem to hate to address that sometimes divorce is needed because of abuse they won’t help me get a lawyer to help me with custody. I’m disabled. I want to work and I can’t. I’m cleared for 6 hours a week. They say they are “praying.” Promised prayers when you are only cleared to work 6 hours a week don’t help much. Why is it that it seems the church will only step into help once you’ve headed down a bad path and not when you confess you are struggling and need real help. Help with things like buying toilet paper and paying car insurance. Real needs.
rleebaker
This will sound harsh but it is because they are not the “real” church. The “real” church would help. Someone challenged me on this last winter, “How do I find a “real” church?” I said, “Drive around, find one that shoveled the snow from their sidewalk (as is required by law here) then you will have found one.” A week later I ran into them. Hadn’t found a single one shoveled. Reminded (encouraged) them to keep looking but “don’t get your hopes up”…”real” is very very hard to find! P.S. I’m in the buckle of the Bible belt.
rleebaker
forgot to add, not only is it required by law, but a real church would of course shovel their sidewalk for people to access their facility.
Jamie
Abigail, I’m really sorry to hear your struggling. Maybe your church doesn’t offer what you need but I know there are churches out there that do. When I was going through my divorce (from an abusive husband as well) and was struggling big time to care for my child, find a place to live etc. I got my groceries from church pantries for a while. If you look, I’m sure you can find at least something like that. The welfare office actually pointed me to a list of churches.
Trish E
So many Christians share the gospel in places where they feel comfortable instead of getting out of their comfort zone and going into places where people’s souls our crying out for help, for love, to be needed not desired. We drive by those sinful places looking only at the outside and judging the inside, and discussing them in a whisper. It’s time to stop, get out and do what God put us here to do. We are not better then those on the inside, we’ve just had a paved road in life and did not have to go down that gravel road. Praise God in the Highest.
Teresa
My daughter is a stripper. I don’t want her to be. I’ve asked her not to be. There is a church that comes on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving, leaving little notes of encouragement, candles, lip balm, a cookie. It makes my daughter cry to know that someone took the time to think about them, showing them a glimpse of kindness and unconditional love. The spark has caught in her heart. She gives her clothing to some of these girls, especially the ones that has lost everything. We need to pray for them, but put words of prayer into action.
Nick Dan
Dang. This is so real.
LRR
I am a lifelong Christian and fell in love with (and will soon marry) a strip club bartender. I too had never been in a strip club until I finally had the nerve to visit his bar (with the encouragement of a friend). I also had many of the same concerns and misconceptions. I now visit the club once a week (day shift). I take the opportunity to engage with many of the dancers along with customers and staff. In reality, with a few exceptions, everyone I encounter is “normal”. People are there for many different reasons. I make no judgements because judgement is not my place. That is left to the Lord. The best I can do is offer love, compassion, friendship and all the good stuff that we Christians are called to provide to our brothers and sisters in this life. I truly can say it has been a very unusual and unexpected blessing to me.
Thankful
This really spoke to me for many reasons. I used to work in a club in Stillwater, OK and a group of girls from a local church used to come on Wednesdays and do this sort of thing bring little gifts and just chat and I met some of the sweetest least judgemental woman. During holidays they would have dinner type things and it just goes to show that some people have the biggest hearts.
It was a time in my life I will never regret because I made the decision to choose that job, it was an experience and it’s not as terrible as movies and media try to make it out to be.
But I do want to say thank you, to woman like you for loving those who sometimes get the most hatred for providing for themselves or their families.
linda
I have one thing to say, not all strippers are broken women! I know as I’m one. I have a wonderful husband and 5 kids. I didn’t start out or even considered being a stripper but I had a choice to work the only job I’d found in 9 months or continue to not have food or anything for our kids. My husband paid a butt load in child support so his checks were basically nothing. So please stop with the strippers are broken woman. Most are not! Some are yes, however you will find lots of broken people weather they are strippers or not. I do not want to be labeled as broken just because of my job!
Alison
Broken people are everwhere. I’ve always believed people are to be loved, and things are to be used. I’m asking as pure curiosity and means of conversation, how do you and your husband view stripping? Does it make you feel beautiful, vunerable, used, or antything? I truly am asking , not judging . I would like to hear your perspective
butterflyprincess2016
I absolutely LOVED this!!! God bless you!!!
Terri
Good for those women ministering at strip clubs. There’s considerable judgment of that around, including in this thread by people who are advising these ministers to lead with condemnation and hellfire — something Jesus never did to suffering sinners. Jesus built relationships and drew people in to salvation based on the trust He had earned by loving people. That’s exactly what is being done here.
Boy, I wonder if any women at my church might go with me to a strip club. We have a lot of them here, and it’s not the sort of ministry I could financially afford to do alone. It’d be good to band together for a lot of reasons.
rleebaker
Good post. So many fit “their” jesus (god) both lower case, into their “traditional” (Jesus said, “the traditions of men are the only thing that will make the word of God (capital G) of no effect) box, then wonder why they don’t see life-changing results. If you don’t see actual life-changing results (Substance) but only see tradition (Form) then realize your in the familiar “Form over Substance” mold of this era, and change!
Sheryl Schulz
Years ago, within a three month period, each of our sons had appearances at court for various crimes they had committed. The first day I went to court to support my son, I wore a suit. Dressing up for something so serious seemed appropriate. The benches outside the courtroom looked like pews to me. Which pew was mine? Where were WE to sit? I didn’t socialize with the women I saw there. There were none of my kind. I didn’t sell drugs; I wasn’t a hooker, as some of the mothers were. I was a GOOD Christian woman, well outside my comfort zone.
As the years trickled on I became more comfortable in courtrooms and their waiting areas. Most importantly to me and my growth as a Christian woman, is the realization that I am in fact no different from the other mothers there to support their families. God loves us and our families. I am glad He does.
graciehill48
Keep your eyes on Jesus…what you are doing is a good, good thing. Following Jesus always is. Love you.
JB
Oh how some of these comments break my heart. Some ridicule the writer for this or that, some are down right mean. I think the over all reason for this is that she was putting her FEELINGS out there based on HER EXPERIENCE. (We all have them) She was specifically talking about a WOMEN’S MINISTRY (which helps WOMEN). Women’s Ministry is not called Women’s & MEN’s Ministry. Just women’s. Most churches, regardless of denomination have a separate area for each. Most of these women are broken. They need options, help, they need Jesus. That is the sole purpose of what the Women’s Ministry does. They meet the basic needs first. Just as Jesus did.
Melissa
Goodness! This wrecked me! Thank you for sharing.
beccalouise
I don’t get how people can be so critical. The author did what she thought was best. Why doesn’t the commenter make a scholarship for strippers instead of just complaining the author didn’t do it? I am baffled.
Deb Behm
This was beautiful! 💗 What a brave and awesome ministry!
Roxy Silvasy
People really love to pick this apart and critique this kind of ministry and this kind of blog. But this had me in tears and I am not a crier! haha. My mom was a prostitute my whole life and when I became a Christian I felt God call me to minister to these women so they could know how deeply they are loved by Jesus. I’m so overjoyed that God has lead you to the same calling! Love!
Roxy, age 20
Geannie G
What an awesome, beautiful story! Thanks so much for sharing! I pray it gets to millions of people trapped in “religiosity” and bondage to a false sense of Who Jesus is and what He stood for! 🙂 Blessings!
created4him
Thank you for this article. I am a male but God put me in a situation to do something very similar to this when I was in my twenties. Some people laugh when I tell the stories until they see the big picture. Even though I was a male I never noticed a naked woman in a club. All I could see was someone who was human and needed Jesus. Someone who was broken and needed God’s love.
I specifically recall one young lady who had a small child and was running from an abusive husband. She was headed to Pennsylvania where her relatives lived when her car broke down in Columbus, GA. She had no help and had to feed her child and it was all she could find at the time.
People don’t need another sermon they just need Jesus. The only way they will see Him is by the love we show them.
Fred Blauer
“My heart is stirred by a noble theme!” Ps. 45:1 Thank God for those who hear what the Spirit is speaking to the church! Thank God for these women who stepped out in faith and made a wonderful attempt at purely loving these the women. Solomon lamented,”Then I looked again at all the acts of oppression which were being done under the sun. And behold I saw the tears of the oppressed and that they had no one to comfort them; and on the side of their oppressors was power, but they had no one to comfort them.” Ecc. 4:1 These women stepped out and “comforted” and that deed alone has the Father, Son and Holy Spirit with the all the angelic hosts looking over the battlements of heaven and shouting,”Glory! What a wonderful expression of the love of God! May your tribe increase!”
You might as well say, “Shame on Jesus for not giving the woman caught in adultery the four spiritual laws.” Acts of mercy speak the gospel louder than words of religion, and love in the end will tenderize the heart and make it receptive to further truth once trust has been established. Oh my heart breaks that this true act of Christian love has to be questioned! To find fault with such a loving act is a statement of the apostasy of the church today. Are we not better than the Pharisees in any way? To examine, pick at and turn over every act of love makes this old Christian wonder how the simple truth can be invisible to those who are sent. Mercy Lord, mercy on us for losing our way.
Dave Panzera
It is always difficult to walk into the unknown…especially when you have been lied to repeatedly about what might be in there. This is a fabulous tool of the devil to diminish your desire to serve in the way these awesome women did here. “I can’t go to my neighbor he will say——-“, “I can’t speak with my co-worker as they will think—–“, “I can’t go to the homeless shelter because they will see me as—-“……all o fit meant to keep you back. Now, keep in mind what I just stated above…and think about the fact that the devil uses the same tact on the lost to deceive them. In the story we read here the women from the strip club told of how they got hate mail from “religious” people, speaking to them of how they are awful and worse. The devil making sure that you are painted as bad before you even show up. But, then the amazing happens. The reality of who you are is made known to them and they are attracted to the One Who made you that way. Jesus in His exchange with the woman at the well did not wag His finger at her and call her names or put labels on her. He simply met her where she was at, spoke to her deep needs and desires and then watched as she was restored with only the admonition to “go and sin no more!” Oh that we could simply be like Jesus and not act as judge, jury and executioner as well as not walk in fear of what God will make a way for if we would but step out in faith.
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anonymous
Thank you so much for writing this. We may never know each other, but I needed to read this desperately – at this very moment (and the blog, this article, was “randomly” shared to me at the moment when I needed it most). Your willingness to serve as well your admission of how this experience affected you reminds me that I am not alone, not alone in a situation that is in so many ways (although not literally) similar to this one. As a number of other times, I came home last night and broke down too, because my heart was broken.
TheDaddyBlitz
This is one of the best and the most spot-on “Jesus posts” I have read in a long time. It really is depressing watching how Christians get so caught up in controlling and condemning sin that they stumble over the stumbling stone.
Chrystal
Beautifully said!! Any one of us could be in the same place if not for the blood of Jesus. I’m grateful for His mercy on my life!
ellieart7
Yes real needs. Not raising big money to run off for a “mission vacation” where you get in yhe way of those who are trying to accomplish something. Not referring people to a “ministry” with out of date canned food and day old white bread. One to one friendship. Even if it’s messy.
Faith O'Leary
truly beautiful <3
Kenny
Here’s a story on a strip club that is also a church on Sundays.
http://www.guelphmercury.com/news-story/4478076-guelph-strip-club-becomes-church-on-sundays/
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Awesome post.
RIO
I am EX stripper from bourbon street been set free 16 years now
I danced 14 years ….wow my heart is in my hand and I cannot stop sweeping as I read tis article…sooo many many nights I had CHURCH pass by with their hell messages not imploring or declaring the love of FATHER TO ANY OF US.
THIS IS AN AMAZING STORY… WOW this is wat the church should look like LOVE…not judgment….wow again wow
thank u for reaching out to my friends..wow again wow